Why is it people choose to stay in situations that are not healthy or what they want? Is creating a self-imposed prison of fear, denial or compromise really preferable to taking any kind of action to improve your life?
I understand fear, denial and compromise. I lived them as many people have, and moved beyond them. What I don’t understand is not doing something about it. These might be lessons to be learned but it doesn’t need to take a lifetime to learn that living in fear sucks, that putting blinders on doesn’t help and compromising your way through life is equally no way to live.
Once we understand that something needs to change, be willing to do the emotional work to make the change.
Don’t wait for the perfect time, now is the perfect time and you are worth it.
Don’t be afraid of what might happen if you try and fail. Failure is the ultimate teacher. It makes you stronger and wiser. Pick yourself up and try again.
Don’t wallow in self-pity because your life in not what you want it to be if you’re not willing to do the work to change it.
Don’t complain or get angry if you aren’t following it with action.
Don’t settle for a life that is not what you want it to be!
Be Brave enough to take a chance on yourself!
Be fearless enough to stand for what you believe!
Now I am not trying to be unkind but don’t come to me for help or advice if you aren’t going to do the work. I won’t do free tarot readings unless I am the one suggesting it. I feel $30.00 is affordable for a half hour session. If you can’t afford it, what can you afford? An exchange is only fair.
Understand I do want to see you grow into your best self but I can’t do the work for you and if you are not willing to do your work I have a right to not waste my time. If the time comes when you are ready and willing to do the work, I will be happy to help in any way I can.
Blessed Be ❤ Sharon